Vietnam Vets and the VFW: Reflections on Membership and Identity

For many Vietnam veterans, the Veterans of Foreign Wars (VFW) has been a key part of their post-service life, offering camaraderie and support. However, recent observations and experiences suggest that the VFW's role may be shifting, with many Vietnam veterans feeling both frustrated and alienated. In this article, we explore the experiences and perspectives of various Vietnam veterans regarding their interactions with the VFW and why some have decided to reject the organization.

Personal Perspectives on VFW Membership

Personal experiences with the VFW vary widely. Some Vietnam veterans are proud of their affiliation and the support they receive from their local chapters. For instance, James, a Life member of the VFW in BrazillIntC, shares, 'I was received fine by the organization. These groups are very friendly to Vietnam veterans, and I am proud of them and what they do. Unlike some organizations, the VFW is not just a bar for drinking and telling stories of battles—it is a place where strong bonds are formed.' James highlights the camaraderie and support that he and other Vietnam veterans find in the VFW, emphasizing the organization's commitment to its members.

However, not everyone has a positive experience. Michael, another Vietnam veteran, offers a contrasting perspective: 'I never joined the VFW because I couldn’t find one in various places I lived that wasn’t just another bar for drinking and tells tales of battles. The VFW seemed more like a place for idle talk rather than meaningful support and camaraderie.' This sentiment is echoed by many Vietnam veterans who feel that the VFW has become a place for socializing rather than a serious support network for combat veterans.

Experiences and Rejection of the VFW

Some Vietnam veterans have rejected the VFW due to political and social issues. Tony, a Vietnam veteran and a member of the VFW, says, 'I am not surprised that the majority of proud Vietnam Vets have tired of the organization. The VFW has become increasingly activist on social issues, particularly political woke activism. Many veterans feel that the organization no longer represents them or the military as a meritocracy. Activities like playing bingo and holding membership drives are not enough to keep members engaged and motivated.'

The Role of Social Issues

The VFW has faced a significant shift in its membership and support base due to its stance on social issues. Many Vietnam veterans see the organization as having become too politically engaged and removed from the core identity of combat veterans. As one Vietnam veteran puts it, 'The VFW is no longer the last meritocracy as it should be. Playing bingo, having cheap beer, and holding membership drives do not represent the values and experiences that many Vietnam veterans cherish. Loyalty and comradeship are the true values that should guide the VFW, not political activism.'

However, not all Vietnam veterans feel the same way. David, a fellow Vietnam veteran and VFW member, believes that the organization still plays a vital role in providing support and camaraderie: 'The VFW is a place where many of my friends are, and they are sincere in everything they do. New members can quickly recognize whether the old folks are sincere and happy to be there. It's important to remember that we all share a common experience as combat veterans, regardless of when we served.'

Conclusion

The experiences and perspectives of Vietnam veterans regarding the VFW highlight the evolving role of such veteran organizations in modern society. While some find the VFW to be a meaningful space for support and camaraderie, others are increasingly rejecting the organization due to its political and social stances. For many Vietnam veterans, the core values of loyalty and comradeship remain at the heart of their identity, and these values should guide the VFW in its continued support of its membership.